

Season 1: Ep. 10 with Daniel Burgess Getting Away From Duty Sex Back To Connection
Jan 28, 2020
In this conversation with Daniel Burgess, an expert in rekindling romance, the focus shifts to removing the burden from sex and fostering genuine intimacy. He shares insights on overcoming the impact of religious views on sexual health and the journey from duty sex to deeper connection. The importance of boundaries and consent in intimate relationships is highlighted, along with the need for qualified sex therapy to create safe spaces. Self-discovery, communication, and mutual consent are essential for cultivating healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
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Therapeutic Tools Beat Tradition
- Therapists often ignore proven therapeutic tools when addressing sexual health due to cultural or religious discomfort.
- Daniel Burgess found CBT and family-strategic methods dramatically improved sexual-health outcomes.
Silence Turns People Into Objects
- Sexual silence and lack of self-awareness turn partners into objects rather than people in relationships.
- The submitter became a tool in the relationship because she didn't know how to define or communicate her sexual needs.
Check A Therapist's Sex-Training
- Ask therapists about their sexual-health training and credentials before starting therapy.
- Prefer clinicians with accredited sex-therapy training (e.g., 150+ AASECT hours) for complex sexual trauma.