Exploring the desire for respect in men, the hosts discuss the importance of earning genuine respect and avoiding vainglory. They also delve into the relationship between habitual sins and addictions, providing insights on recovery. Additionally, the podcast introduces a sponsor, the Catholic Woodworker, and addresses the challenge of putting on the new man and growing in holiness.
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Quick takeaways
Seeking respect solely from others is a fruitless pursuit; true respect comes from understanding and accepting one's identity as a son of God.
The absence of proper affirmation and validation from a father figure can lead to a longing for respect and validation in men.
Developing virtue, integrity, and striving for excellence in one's talents and gifts contribute to becoming a man worthy of respect.
Deep dives
Importance of receiving discipline and love from the Lord
Receiving discipline and love from the Lord is essential to becoming the man one is called to be. Lack of understanding in this area leads to a dead-end pursuit of love from others and an overbearing, controlling attitude. By embracing God's discipline and love, one can express love and become a true man.
The core need for respect in men
Respect is a fundamental core need for men, as it is related to honor and admiration. Men desire to be respected and admired, which can be traced back to their instinctual longing for strength and honor. However, seeking respect solely from others is a fruitless pursuit, as true respect comes from understanding and accepting one's identity as a son of God.
The wounded father-son relationship
The father-son relationship plays a crucial role in a man's need for respect. Without proper affirmation and validation from a father figure, men can struggle with feelings of insecurity and doubt. The absence of initiatory experiences and a lack of male mentors further contribute to the longing for respect and validation. Healing this relationship and discovering one's identity as a son of God is crucial in finding true respect.
Developing virtue and integrity
Virtue and integrity are key aspects of earning respect. Developing one's potential and excelling in the talents and gifts bestowed by God is an important step. Likewise, cultivating inner integrity, aligning one's actions with one's values, and addressing disordered areas of life lead to self-respect and radiate outward. Striving for excellence in virtue and living with integrity contribute to becoming a man worthy of respect.
The path to overcoming addiction or habitual sin
Addiction or habitual sin can be overcome through various paths. Seeking therapy or counseling is essential for those struggling with severe addiction. Engaging in spiritual practices such as attending Mass regularly, receiving sacraments, and spending time with Our Lady can provide strength and grace. Maintaining consistency, taking full responsibility, and actively engaging in the healing process are crucial. Avoiding an all-or-nothing mindset and not abusing the sacrament of confession are important considerations. With persistence, a commitment to growth, and reliance on God's grace, freedom from addiction can be attained.
Today, John, Sam, and Devin dive deep into the compelling topic of why men often seek respect but sometimes for misguided reasons. They explore how this desire for respect is etched into the core of a man's being, often intertwined with the desire for love. However, the hosts emphasize the need for this to be guided correctly because the opposite leads to vainglory, a sin that veers us off the virtuous path. Tune in as they articulate the essential rules that men should hold close to their hearts, guiding them on the journey to earn respect in a way that aligns with God's divine plan for their lives.
Finally, each week we are going to answer one of your questions during the podcast. This week we have a question from a man who wants to know the relationship between habitual sins and addictions. If you have any questions, please, record yourself on your phone and send us the audio clip to podcast@catholicgentleman.com. Or just send us your question and we will read it on air.
