

You’re Not Trying To Raise Well-Behaved Kids
5 snips Apr 9, 2024
Delve into the philosophy of parenting that prioritizes raising well-adjusted adults over just well-behaved kids. Explore the importance of nurturing emotional regulation and mature values in children. Discover how focusing on the long-term development of your child can reshape your parenting approach. This thought-provoking discussion challenges societal expectations and encourages a deeper look at what it means to be a responsible parent.
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Behavior vs. Character
- Appearances of good behavior can be deceiving; true character is more important.
- Well-behaved kids might have controlling or abusive parents.
Raising Adults, Not Just Well-Behaved Kids
- Focus on raising well-adjusted adults, not just well-behaved children.
- Prioritize teaching kids emotional regulation over mere obedience.
Teen Emotions
- Tantrums and mistakes are inevitable in teenagers.
- Our job is to guide and support, not suppress emotions through shame.