"Come On, Man" Podcast Why Smart Men Keep Failing in Love (And How to Fix It)
Jul 2, 2025
Discover why intelligent men often sabotage their love lives and how they can change that. Explore the emotional hurdles of jealousy and trust, and learn the importance of self-reflection. The dangers of complacency in relationships are revealed, alongside strategies for effective communication and boundary-setting. From navigating 'shit tests' to emphasizing emotional intelligence, the conversation dives into fostering healthier connections and personal growth as the key to lasting love.
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Invisible Sabotage in Relationships
- Negative subconscious paradigms cause repeated relationship failures despite success and confidence.
- Jealousy and mistrust silently sabotage new relationships, perpetuating cycles of disappointment.
Paul's Divorce and Dating Struggles
- After divorce, Paul fell into 'husband mode' and neglected dating efforts, letting his partner lead.
- This passivity and temper issues led to arguments and eventual breakup, highlighting self-sabotage.
Lead, Don't People-Pleasant
- Avoid people-pleasing and passive behavior that erodes attraction over time.
- Make decisive choices to lead the relationship instead of leaving all decisions to your partner.
