U Up? Is the Pen Pal Dating Trend Back?
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Oct 17, 2025 A recent TikTok sparks a lively discussion about the modern pen pal trend in dating. The hosts debate why some men persist in texting without making plans, questioning their intentions. They explore seasonal dating patterns and the motivations behind this pattern. Listeners weigh in on whether an ex should continue participating in a mutual NFL survivor pool post-breakup. The conversation takes a turn toward age gaps in dating, dissecting when it's acceptable and when it might feel inappropriate.
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Recycled Dating Debates On TikTok
- TikTok creators keep revisiting dating issues that hosts feel were solved years ago.
- Jared sees repeated videos like Bethenny Frankel's as attention-driven, not new revelations.
Why Pen Pal Season Happens In Fall
- Fall triggers 'pen pal season' because people re-download apps and have fewer scheduling excuses.
- Men exploit renewed availability by texting more but not necessarily planning dates.
Texting Isn’t The Same As Dating
- Men often maintain texting intimacy without intending commitment or immediate plans.
- Texting can be emotional filler for loneliness or a way to keep options open.