Ep. 7: Connection or Protection? The Science of Opposition

The brain has two modes- connection or protection.

Protective behaviors include opposition, defiance, aggression- basically, any behavior that doesn't invite connection.

If we want to help shift our children's oppositional behaviors, we must first help their brain shift out of protection and into protection!

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An article about felt-safety: robyngobbel.com/feltsafety

An article about oppositional behavior: robyngobbel.com/oppositiondefiancecontrol

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