Four Decisions for an Easier Marriage, The Power of Intentional Fun, Marriage Before Kids - w/ Arlene Pellicane

In today's episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron interviews Arlene Pellicane, author of ten books including her latest, "Making Marriage Easier." After 25 years of marriage and raising three children (two now in college), Arlene shares practical wisdom about cultivating a thriving marriage relationship. Her humorous approach combined with biblical principles offers couples a refreshing perspective on how small, intentional decisions can transform their relationship.

In this insightful conversation, we explore:

• The four core decisions that make marriage easier: playing by the rules, giving thanks, serving one another, and taking fun seriously
• Why addressing small issues before they become "dragons" is essential for marital health
• How to understand your spouse's perspective and find humor in your differences
• The importance of intentionally prioritizing your marriage above parenting
• Practical ways to nurture your relationship while raising children
• Why honest communication about sensitive topics builds trust and intimacy
• How cultivating an attitude of gratitude transforms your marriage perspective
• The value of seeking wisdom from couples with strong marriages
• Simple, specific actions that can lead to significant relational change
• Why humility is the foundation for receiving feedback from your spouse

Whether you're newlyweds learning to navigate life together, parents struggling to find balance, or a couple looking to inject more joy into your relationship, this conversation offers practical wisdom for making marriage not just work, but thrive.

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Connect with Arlene Pellicane:

• Website: makingmarriageeasier.com (get free date night ideas!)
• Book: "Making Marriage Easier"
• Podcast: The Happy Home
• Spokesperson for National Marriage Week, a movement to shift the culture to value marriage once again
• Other Books: "Parents Rising" and "Screen Kids" (co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman)

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