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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

(Rewind): If You Love Them, But They Won't Change...

Sep 15, 2023
13:24
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This podcast discusses the challenging decision of whether to leave or try to fix a relationship. It explores the illusion of change and rationalizing toxic behavior, as well as the challenges of dealing with unchanging people. It provides questions to ask when making this decision and emphasizes the need for genuine commitment to change.
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Quick takeaways

  • Expecting someone to change without evidence of their motivation or commitment is unrealistic.
  • Recognize when you are creating a false reality in a relationship and prioritize personal happiness.

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The importance of genuine commitment to change

In this podcast episode, the speaker discusses the importance of genuine commitment to change in relationships. They address a situation where someone wants their ex to change, but there is no evidence that the ex is willing or committed to changing problematic behaviors. The speaker emphasizes that change is hard and expecting someone to change without any indication of their motivation or commitment is unrealistic. They highlight the need for concrete actions and a proven track record of change before considering reconciliation.

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