BHE 125 - REJECTION IS POSSESSION

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Sep 8, 2022

This podcast explores how rejection types use possession as a replacement for connection. It discusses the sensitivity of rejection types to penetrating others and the use of offerings. It also touches on the vulnerability rejection types seek in someone's heart, the power of leverage for profound effects, and the impact of films on the theme of isolation. The concept of rejection and its impact on our sense of self is also explored, along with frustration and insecurity among different Enneagram types.

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Introduction

00:00 • 4min

Rejection Types and Vulnerabilities

04:13 • 26min

The Power of Leverage and Redefining Art

29:51 • 5min

Implanting Ideas and the Impact of Films

34:42 • 7min

Finding Wholeness in Rejection

42:02 • 4min

Exploring Rejection and its Effects

46:04 • 9min

Frustration and Insecurity: Exploring Enneagram Types

54:54 • 8min

We’re bringing the pain to rejection types. How penetrating the other becomes the replacement for connection.

— (2:08) The penetration and leverage of rejection is a possession of the other
— (4:25) Riffing on what sexual 8 possession really means / all the rejection types are doing possession through their centers
— (11:06) Possessing the other becomes a replacement for the connection the rejection type assumes is not on the table
— (13:46) Callback to soul intercourse and how that had a parental rejection dynamic for Emeka
— (16:51) Rejection types are tracking how much it matters to you / tiers of penetration
— (20:36) Rejection types needing someone who can get through their wall but tending to seek out those who allow them to reinforce a possession dynamic
— (25:47) An attraction can feel really strong only because it’s reinforcing the type structure’s ego agenda
— (29:09) 8s are forceful because they’re expanding on potent leverage points to rewrite an experience of something
— (34:24) Rejection possession dynamics in Inception and There Will Be Blood
— (42:04) How rejection types can let go of the story of being a cut off fractional person
— (49:03) Language around instinctual approaches differing from the point of view of the centers / sexual instinct and competition
— (51:33) Rejection types redefining the game and doubling down on it until the other doesn’t feel like they’re in a full relationship
— (54:58) The insecurity of frustration types in getting their needs met
— (58:19) The challenges of attaching to a rejection type / the assumption of being on the same page is what ensures a disconnect continues to arise and we adapt to each other

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