Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 248 - Playing Monogamy with Simon(e) van Saarloos
Nov 26, 2019
Simon(e) van Saarloos, author of 'Playing Monogamy,' brings a fresh philosophical perspective on non-monogamous relationships. In this conversation, she evaluates traditional notions of intimacy and challenges societal norms surrounding love and marriage. The discussion delves into the complexities of sexual identity and critiques how rigid labels can hinder personal exploration. Simon(e) also emphasizes the need for diverse perspectives in relationships and reflects on the societal constructs that shape our expressions of love and grief.
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Philosophy Enriches Non-Monogamy
- Simon(e) van Saarloos found North American writings on non-monogamy lacked a deeply philosophical lens connecting it to meaning-making.
- She used philosophy to dismantle cultural norms and enrich understanding of intimacy beyond rules and practices.
Non-Monogamy Should Be Dangerous
- Simon(e) warns non-monogamy becoming a mere lifestyle risks commodification and containment.
- She calls for non-monogamy to be ‘dangerous’, challenging societal norms on relationships and property.
Non-Monogamy Beyond Polyamory
- Polyamory as a term is historically narrow and often excludes marginalized groups' varied intimate non-monogamous lives.
- Simon(e) highlights safety within societal and racial contexts shapes relationship choices, impacting non-monogamy discourse.
