Keeping Your Spouse First and Your Marriage Fun with Arlene Pellicane

This is the perfect episode to kick off July, as this month at Awesome Marriage we’re highlighting the importance of dating your spouse. Arlene Pellicane joins me in the studio to talk about keeping your spouse first and your marriage fun! But what does that actually look like? In the midst of life’s demands, Arlene shares practical tips and loads of wisdom to help you keep investing in your marriage and enjoying your spouse. We pray this episode encourages your marriage.

Episode Takeaways:

• Marriage and parenting are common pain points for many people.

• The divorce rate is down, but so is the marriage rate.

• Men are marrying later and less frequently than in the past.

• Gray divorce is on the rise, with more older couples divorcing.

• Couples often stay together for the kids but drift apart afterward.

• Awareness of vulnerability in marriage is crucial.

• Gratitude can transform how you view your spouse.

• Serving your spouse should be unconditional, regardless of their actions.

• Fun is essential in maintaining a healthy marriage.

• Finding common interests can strengthen the bond between spouses. Be creative in finding fun activities together.

• Family meals are essential for daily connection.

• Prioritizing your spouse can enhance the marriage.

• It's important to forgive quickly in a marriage.

• Express gratitude for your spouse regularly.

• Shared experiences create lasting memories.

• Nurturing the marriage benefits the entire family.

• Every day together is a gift to cherish.

• The book 'Making Marriage Easier' offers practical insights.

 

Quotes from this Episode:

• "It's never too late to turn that around."

• "We want to avoid drifting apart."

• "Play by God's rules in your marriage."

• "Who can out-serve the other?"

• "I will try it, even if I'm not good at it."

• "What can we do all together?"

• "You don't have to do it like everyone else."

• "It blesses your kids."

• "Every day is a gift that we have together."

 

Questions for Conversation:

1. What practical steps can you take this week to put your marriage first, even amidst busy schedules and family demands?
2. How can you create more opportunities for fun and laughter with your spouse, making your relationship a joyful priority?
3. In what ways can prioritizing your spouse help you both feel more connected and valued in your daily life?
4. What new or creative activities can you plan together to bring more excitement and shared enjoyment into your marriage?

 

Mentioned in this Episode: 

• Find Arlene Pellicane on IG. 

• We believe that keeping marriage fun means date night can’t be boring. Check out our Date Night Boosters. Reignite the fun and intimacy in your date nights with your spouse.

• Want an opportunity to dig into God’s Word as you intentionally choose to pursue the marriage God intended, find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. Try this FREE YouVersion plan: 7 Secrets of an Awesome Marriage

• If you haven’t browsed our site, you’ve GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com ! 

• Sign up for Dr. Kim’s Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips!

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