How To Attract Abundance By Destroying Your Neediness | Lewis Howes
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Aug 27, 2025
Explore the transformative power of community and personal growth. Discover how the journey toward abundance starts from within, not from need. It all hinges on shifting your mindset from scarcity to inner peace. Achieving your goals from a place of wholeness attracts positivity and connection. When you radiate genuine energy, people are drawn to you. Instead of chasing external validation, learn to embrace your worth and build relationships that amplify joy.
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Chasing Success From A Wound
Lewis Howes describes building relationships and business from a wounded, needy place and still feeling empty after success.
He explains that achieving those things amplified insecurity instead of resolving his lack.
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Wholeness Attracts Differently
Attracting from wholeness brings different results than attracting from neediness or desperation.
Embodying peace and alignment makes you magnetic and draws people who want that energy.
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Learn Discernment And Boundaries
Do cultivate a state of being where you can say no to offers that don't align with your purpose or boundaries.
Practice discernment so you avoid overwhelm, burnout, and premature commitments in love and work.
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"Everything you've always wanted has always been yours. You are just finally realizing it when you start to align yourself to healing, peace and abundance." - Lewis Howes
For years, I was that guy chasing relationships and business success from the most broken place imaginable. I thought if I could just build a bigger following, make more money, or find the right person to love me, then I'd finally feel whole. But here's what nobody tells you about achieving your goals from neediness - when you actually get what you thought you wanted, the emptiness doesn't disappear. It gets worse. I'd hit these milestones I'd been desperately chasing and instead of feeling fulfilled, I felt more insecure, more scarce, wondering why I still felt so empty inside. That's when I realized I was creating my entire life from a wound, not from wholeness.
The shift that changed everything wasn't about working harder or wanting less - it was about understanding the energy I was bringing to everything I desired. When you can attract love, opportunities, and abundance from a place where you're already whole, where you already feel complete, something magical happens. People become drawn to you not because you need them, but because you're radiating the kind of energy they want to be around. But here's the catch - when abundance starts flowing your way, you better have boundaries and discernment locked down, because saying yes to everything that comes your way will land you right back in overwhelm and burnout.
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