The Dr. Psych Mom Show
with clinical psychologist
Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten The Real Compatibility: Having The Same Idea Of How Important The Relationship Is
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Sep 6, 2024 Explore the fascinating dynamics of relationship compatibility, focusing on how equally valuing a partnership can shape its success. Discover the impact of attachment styles, from secure to anxious and avoidant, on partner choices. Dive deep into the importance of open communication about needs and desires as relationships evolve. Learn how to establish and prioritize relationship goals, fostering resilience and commitment. Personal anecdotes and pop culture references bring these concepts to life in a relatable and engaging manner.
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True Compatibility
- Real compatibility hinges on shared relationship prioritization, not just similar hobbies.
- Many overlook this, focusing on superficial commonalities instead of core values.
Preoccupied vs. Secure
- Preoccupied individuals often try to fix themselves to make an avoidant partner commit.
- Securely attached people recognize that the partner must inherently value relationships.
Prioritize Relationships
- Look for partners who prioritize relationships, not just individuals.
- Don't overemphasize personal chemistry and the honeymoon phase.