Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel Esther Calling - I Left. Now I Want My Wife Back.
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Oct 9, 2023 In a heartfelt call, a man grapples with regret after leaving his wife for a work romance, now engaged but yearning to return to his past life. He confides in Esther Perel about his feelings of unworthiness and the complexities of seeking reconciliation. They dive deep into themes of redemption, emotional repression, and the challenge of navigating intimacy. The conversation highlights the struggles of reconnecting amidst unresolved feelings and the inherent shame of past decisions, emphasizing the critical need for communication in healing relationships.
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Caller's Story
- The caller left his wife for a coworker after struggling with a new job, a newborn, and a seemingly perfect relationship.
- Now engaged to the coworker, he realizes his mistake and wants his family back.
Redemption and Deserving Forgiveness
- The caller struggles with the concept of redemption and whether he deserves forgiveness.
- Esther Perel questions his understanding of redemption.
Homelessness and Acceptance
- The caller has never felt at home with anyone except his ex-wife.
- Meeting her felt like acceptance for the first time, but he never felt deserving.