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Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser
#200 Reclaiming Eroticism with Yoni Massage (with Ella D’Aloia)
Feb 11, 2024
Holistic sex coach and yoni massage therapist Ella D’Aloia discusses the healing benefits of yoni massage, the importance of self-pleasure, approaching your partner's genitals with respect and consent, reclaiming stigmatized words for genitals, men's erotic journeys, and the need for ongoing sexual education.
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- Approach the yoni with care and focus on the external areas first, without the expectation of penetration, to create a safe and pleasurable experience.
- Have sensitive conversations about self-pleasure, understanding each partner's comfort level and readiness, and provide educational resources to promote body positivity and pleasure.
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Approaching Touch with Curiosity and Sensitivity
When touching the yoni, it is important to treat the whole body as a sexual organ and work from the outside in. Slow down and explore kissing and caressing the entire body, paying close attention to the breasts to help open the heart and cultivate sexual energy. When it comes to touching the yoni, focus on the external areas first, such as the vulva and the labia, and explore pleasure-giving touch without the expectation of penetration. Start with light touches, copying and massaging to create a safe and pleasurable experience. Encourage open communication and curiosity, and be receptive to your partner's comfort level and readiness.
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