Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser #200 Reclaiming Eroticism with Yoni Massage (with Ella D’Aloia)
Feb 11, 2024
Holistic sex coach and yoni massage therapist Ella D’Aloia discusses the healing benefits of yoni massage, the importance of self-pleasure, approaching your partner's genitals with respect and consent, reclaiming stigmatized words for genitals, men's erotic journeys, and the need for ongoing sexual education.
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Yoni Massage: Therapeutic, Not Sexual
- Genital touch is often conflated with sexual touch, but Yoni massage aims to be therapeutic, not sexually explicit.
- The intention is to explore and learn about the body, focusing on pain, tension, and numbness, while still acknowledging pleasure.
Numbness from Vibrator Use
- Ella D’Aloia shares a personal experience of numbness during her first Yoni massage due to frequent vibrator use.
- This anecdote highlights the potential physical effects of relying heavily on intense stimulation.
Reclaiming the Word "Pussy"
- The word "pussy" has undergone a reclamation, shifting from derogatory to empowering.
- Using it confidently can challenge taboos surrounding female genitals.