Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi 191. “My wife doesn't respect me because she earns 5x more”
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Jan 14, 2025 Dillon and Carrie tackle the challenges of income disparity in their relationship. With Carrie earning significantly more, they confront financial anxieties and the emotional toll it takes on their bond. Their journey dives into the complexities of guilt-free spending and the need for open communication about shared financial goals. They explore how perceptions of fairness impact respect and fulfillment in their lives. Ultimately, the conversation centers on transforming anxieties into a shared vision of prosperity and joy.
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Disproportionate Worry
- Dylan and Carrie's anxieties about a $15,000 trip are disproportionate to their $237,000 annual income.
- Their conversation reveals underlying anxieties about money and their differing financial perspectives.
Pilates Guilt
- Carrie struggles to justify a $50 Pilates class, linking it to potential house renovations.
- This reveals her guilt around spending on herself versus saving for future expenses.
Over-Saving Analogy
- Over-saving and investing can become unhealthy, similar to over-exercising.
- While beneficial in moderation, excessive focus on saving can be detrimental to well-being.
