Foreplay Radio – Couples and Sex Therapy 408: Desire: Initiating v. Responsiveness
Oct 6, 2023
Exploring the difference between initiating and responsiveness in desire. Understanding the pursue/withdraw cycle and how to deescalate negative cycles. The importance of communication and understanding one's own needs. Exploring the dynamics of pursuers and their partners. The significance of balance, reciprocity, and emotional engagement in conversations. An upcoming retreat and training on success and vulnerability for therapists.
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Introduction
00:00 • 2min
Understanding Receptive and Physical Desire
01:59 • 8min
Secure Attachment and Initiating vs. Anxiety
09:59 • 3min
Understanding a Healthy Sexual Relationship and Introducing Cozy Earth Sheets
13:04 • 2min
Exploring Erotic Stories with Dipsy and Uber lube
14:37 • 3min
The Importance of Initiating and Receptivity in a Relationship
17:39 • 15min
Retreat, Training, and Importance of Practical Moves
32:28 • 2min