ERP 391: Understanding Dominant & Submissive Roles In Relationship — An Interview With Chris M. Lyon

Dominant and submissive roles within relationships have always carried an air of mystique and intrigue. Yet, more often than not, these roles are shrouded in misunderstanding, creating confusion and misconceptions that can leave couples navigating uncharted waters. In the intricate dance of intimacy, it's easy to fall prey to preconceived notions, equating dominance with control or submission with passivity.

In this episode, we delve into these intricate roles, unraveling the complexities and unveiling the truths that lie beneath the surface. By addressing common misconceptions and offering actionable insights, we hope to illuminate the path for couples seeking to understand and embrace these roles in their relationships. Through a deeper comprehension of the interplay between dominance and submission, couples can cultivate a more authentic, harmonious, and fulfilling connection with one another. Join us as we embark on a journey to demystify these roles and pave the way for healthier, more profound relationships.

Chris M. Lyon is a relationship expert and coach certified in applied neuroscience and brain health. She is the author of “Leading and Supportive Love: The Truth About Dominant and Submissive Relationships”. She developed L/s (Leading/supportive) Types that define common behavioral patterns exhibited by many couples. Lyon has coached thousands through crisis, trauma, and leadership for over two decades. She’s been featured in various media and teaches online courses at coachlyon.com.

 Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website.

In this episode

5:32 Exploring Chris Lyons motivation behind the interest in dominant and submissive relationship dynamics.

7:58 Misconceptions and stereotypes surrounding dominant and submissive relationships.

14:51 The consequences of mismatched roles in daily interactions within dominant and submissive relationships.

18:39 Understanding relationship orientation on a spectrum.

24:10 Exploring attraction and cultural messages in relationship roles.

30:32 Trust, leadership, and the role of vetting in dominant-submissive relationships.

36:48 Navigating dominance: From skill development to cultural influences.

42:03 The interplay between dominance and submission in kink and relationships.

44:34 Addressing the issue of mismatched relationships.

50:26 Embracing authenticity in dominant and submissive relationships.

Mentioned

Leading and Supportive Love: The Truth About Dominant and Submissive Relationships (*Amazon Affiliate link) (audiobook)

Leading and Supportive Love: The Truth About Dominant and Submissive Relationships (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book)

D/s Relationship Masterclass Collection

Increase Relationship Skills (survey)

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