Conversing with Mark Labberton How a Thanksgiving Dinner Saved My Life, with Mark Labberton
“Things had radically changed. … They had not only changed my mindset, but they had saved my life.”
In this Conversing Short, Mark Labberton opens up about a period of darkness and despair, when as a younger man he considered ending his life. But when he was invited to share Thanksgiving dinner with a local couple, his eyes were opened to a concrete hope, friendship, and joy—all embodied in the simple feast of a community potluck.
Every year since, Mark calls these friends on Thanksgiving Day, in gratitude for and celebration of the hospitality, generosity, beauty, friendship, and hope he encountered that day.
Here Mark reflects on the emotional and psychological difficulties he was going through, the meaning and beauty of friendship, how every dish of a Thanksgiving dinner is an act of hope and community, and how hospitality and generosity can uplift every member of a community.
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About Conversing Shorts
“In between my longer conversations with people who fascinate and inspire and challenge me, I share a short personal reflection, a focused episode that brings you the ideas, stories, questions, ponderings, and perspectives that animate Conversing and give voice to the purpose and heart of the show. Thanks for listening with me.”
About Mark Labberton
Mark Labberton is the Clifford L. Penner Presidential Chair Emeritus and Professor Emeritus of Preaching at Fuller Seminary. He served as Fuller’s fifth president from 2013 to 2022. He’s the host of Conversing.
Show Notes
- A story about Thanksgiving Day many years ago, during Mark Labberton’s master of divinity degree at Fuller Seminary
- “… not just overwhelmed, but really undone”
- “ … the possibility of ending my life …”
- Every Thanksgiving dish as an act of hope and community
- Beauty of friendship
- A magnificent extravaganza
- Sharing not just food but hope
- “Things had radically changed. And that in fact they had, they had not only changed my mindset, but they had saved my life.”
- “For me, Thanksgiving Day holds this deep and pensive awareness that Thanksgiving doesn't always come easy, that often it's a difficult act, that it involves things that are sometimes impossible for certain people to carry. And at the same time, it's possible for other people to carry them in our place, which is what these friends did for me that day.”
- If you’re feeling despair, seek professional help. Call or text 988 for an immediate response with a counsellor.
- Seek community.
- “Whether you're in darkness or in light, whether your heart feels full of gratitude or whether it may not, I just hope that you'll be aware that God is with you, that you are not alone, that there are people that want to support you and help you, and that there are people that know you who would welcome you into a circle of celebration and gratitude today.”
Production Credits
Conversing is produced and distributed in partnership with Comment magazine and Fuller Seminary.