PsycHacks Episode 469: Sexless marriage (a breach of contract)
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Oct 4, 2024 Sexless marriages are often misunderstood but are surprisingly common. The discussion centers on the idea that sexual withdrawal in monogamous relationships can be seen as a form of cheating. It highlights the emotional turmoil faced by partners when intimacy fades. The podcast also frames these relationships as contractual agreements, stressing the importance of accountability and communication. It challenges traditional notions of fidelity, suggesting that even in flawed situations, aspects of the relationship can still hold value.
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Sexless Marriage as Cheating
- Unilateral refusal of sex in monogamy is cheating.
- Zero partners isn't one, just like two isn't, breaching the agreement.
Breach of Agreement
- A sexless marriage implies the individual is no longer in a monogamous relationship.
- This constitutes a breach of the initial agreement, similar to an affair.
Severability in Relationships
- Don't automatically end the relationship when a term, like monogamy, is breached.
- Consider the severability clause—other aspects of the relationship still hold value.