The Dr. John Delony Show Should We Stay Married for the Sake of Our Kids?
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Dec 18, 2024 Today’s discussion dives deep into the tug-of-war between staying married for the kids and the quest for personal happiness. A caller navigates the rocky waters of trust and betrayal amid a husband’s addiction, leading to vital reflections on emotional well-being. Another listener grapples with career uncertainty, seeking purpose through service. Plus, insights on processing grief and anxiety after a disaster, emphasizing the healing power of connection and community, round out this thought-provoking conversation.
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Rebuilding vs. Passive Ending
- Instead of staying married just for the kids, rebuild the marriage into something new.
- If that's not possible, own the decision to divorce, rather than letting the marriage passively "run its course".
Deeper Issues Beyond Pornography
- Brittany's husband's pornography use may be a symptom of deeper issues, like not feeling good enough and viewing his wife as a "figurine" in his fantasy.
- Brittany's discomfort with his changed behavior suggests underlying resentment or distrust, despite his improvements.
Creating Peace at Home
- Identify what truly makes you feel unsafe and communicate your needs clearly.
- Instead of focusing on your partner's behavior, focus on creating peace in your home for yourself.
