All In The Mind From school avoidance to food anxieties: navigating neurodiverse parenting
Oct 18, 2025
Sarah Hayden, a social worker and equine-assisted therapist, shares her journey of raising her daughter, Chloe, an award-winning actress. Discussing unexpected autism diagnoses, Sarah explores the emotional impact of school refusal and food aversions. She highlights practical strategies for neurodivergent kids, such as flexible school attendance and the benefits of equine therapy. The conversation delves into the importance of redefining success and focusing on well-being, making it a must-listen for parents navigating similar challenges.
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Surprised By The Diagnosis
- Sarah first pictured autism as the Rain Man stereotype and was shocked at Chloe's diagnosis.
- She felt devastation not for the label but for how long Chloe had silently struggled.
School Became Unbearable
- Chloe cried at school daily and teachers sometimes forced her into class.
- After years of bullying and distress Sarah was told to homeschool or risk losing her child.
Create Purposeful School Roles
- Ask schools to make reasonable adjustments and create structured roles or clubs for children.
- Use safe activities like a library monitor or art club to give neurodivergent kids a purpose at lunchtime.
