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the matcha diaries
do you actually like HIM or only the IDEA of him?... big sis advice edition
Oct 11, 2023
Cara and Leo answer advice questions about love, relationships, crushes, and more, discussing topics such as dealing with parents' disapproval, determining if you actually like someone or just the idea of them, avoiding unrealistic expectations in relationships, approaching someone you're interested in, and their current coffee orders.
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- Take the initiative and approach someone you're interested in, as waiting for them to make the first move may lead to missed opportunities.
- When facing disapproval from parents about your partner, prioritize your own happiness and communicate openly, while also respecting your parents' concerns.
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Approaching a guy and making the first move
Approaching someone you're interested in can be intimidating, but there are different approaches you can take. One option is to make eye contact and give subtle signals to show your interest, such as smiling or initiating conversation. Another approach is to be more direct and confident by giving your phone number or contact details in a casual and non-threatening way, such as writing it on a piece of paper or dropping it in their book. This gives them the opportunity to reach out if they're interested. Remember, it's important to set realistic expectations and not put too much pressure on yourself or the other person. The worst that can happen is they may not reciprocate, but you've still taken a brave step and made someone feel good about themselves.
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