How to Be a Better Human How to forget about finding “The One”— and build a lasting relationship (with Dr. George Blair West)
Jun 21, 2021
George Blair West, a relationship expert and psychiatrist with over 25 years of experience, shares invaluable insights on building lasting partnerships. He debunks the myth of 'The One' and emphasizes the importance of emotional compatibility instead. Listeners learn practical steps for choosing the right partner and fostering strong connections, highlighting vulnerability, commitment, and communication. The discussion also addresses challenges of modern relationships, including technology's impact and the significance of mutual support during difficult times.
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Multiple Soulmates
- The idea of "The One" can be limiting and even less romantic than acknowledging multiple compatible partners.
- Choosing someone to build a unique relationship with is more fulfilling.
Commitment is Key
- Commitment is key for lasting relationships, as seen in arranged marriages.
- It fosters trust, vulnerability, and acceptance, building intimacy over time.
Definition of Love
- Build love by accepting your partner's shortcomings and committing to mutual personal growth.
- Nurture growth like tending a plant: provide support without forcing change.
