Get ready for a Hot Girl Summer with tips on sensation play, hotel sex, and sex toy picks for travel. Learn about boundaries for bachelor/bachelorette parties, safe public sex spots, and navigating friends with benefits. Plus, discover how to spice up your sex life with summer flings, dating tips, and discreet public sex locations.
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Quick takeaways
Exploring temperature play with ice cubes and warming lubes can intensify arousal and create new sensations during foreplay.
Spicing up intimacy with adventurous activities like hotel sex and trying new toys can enhance excitement in relationships.
Establishing clear boundaries and open communication are vital for navigating friends with benefits relationships and avoiding misunderstandings.
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Experimenting with Sensation Play
Temperature play involving hot and cold sensations can enhance arousal during foreplay, creating a rush of sensations and endorphins. Couples can engage in unpredictable patterns with warm massage oils, ice cubes, and warming lubes to explore sensation play. Using ice cubes, massage candles, warming lubes, and glass or metal toys can add excitement and novelty to intimacy.
Spicing Up Sex Life with Adventure
Spicing up the sex life can involve trying new activities and games, such as sex dice and BDSM games, to explore adventurous pleasures. Skinny dipping, hotel sex, and exploring new locations for intimate moments can add excitement to the relationship. Packing essentials like toys and experimenting with temperature play can further enhance intimacy.
Navigating Friends with Benefits Relationships
Setting boundaries and clarifying expectations are crucial in friends with benefits relationships to avoid misunderstandings. Discussing long-term goals, personal values, and desires can help partners align on the nature of the relationship. Communication, exploration of fantasies, and respecting individual boundaries are key to navigating friends with benefits dynamics.
Dealing with Size Insecurities in Intimacy
Size insecurities in intimate relationships, such as concerns about dildo size versus one's own anatomy, can impact confidence and pleasure. Partners can communicate openly about desires and reassure each other about their attractions and connections. Understanding that intimacy involves various elements beyond physical attributes can help alleviate size-related anxieties.
Confidence in Trying New Sexual Outfits
Building confidence in trying new sexual outfits involves personal exploration and self-comfort. Practicing wearing the outfit alone at home can help increase comfort and familiarity. Creating scenarios where the outfit can be incorporated seamlessly and discussing boundaries with partners can enhance the experience and reduce anxiety around intimate attire.
Enhancing Safety and Pleasure During Intimacy
Prioritizing safety and comfort during intimate moments, such as using eye protection during certain activities, can enhance pleasure and minimize discomfort. Exploring alternative positions and preventative measures, like changing angles or using protective gear, can ensure a pleasurable and safe experience. Open communication and mutual understanding are essential for addressing concerns and adapting practices for shared enjoyment.
Summer is heating up and I’m here to make sure that your sex life follows suit. In this throwback episode, I’m sharing my steamiest ideas on how to experiment with hot (and cold) sensation play, the perks of hotel sex, and my personal sex toy picks for travel. Can’t get away this year? No worries, I’ve got sex tips for bringing the vacation into your bedroom. If you’re ready for a Hot Girl Summer, this ep’s for you.
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How to set boundaries for your bachelor/bachelorette parties