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The Thais Gibson Podcast

This Is Why A Dismissive Avoidant Pulls Away When Interested!

Mar 7, 2024
Explore why dismissive avoidant individuals pull away when interested, delving into fear of vulnerability, childhood neglect, and self-preservation. Understand the psychological roots and behaviors of dismissive avoidants in relationships, and learn how to navigate mixed messages with setting deadlines for clarity.
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  • Dismissive avoidant individuals may pull away in relationships due to their all or nothing thinking about readiness for commitment.
  • Dismissive avoidant attachment styles harbor a fear of vulnerability stemming from childhood experiences of emotional neglect, leading them to reject deep emotional connections.

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Reasons for Dismissive Avoidant Behavior in Relationships

Dismissive avoidant individuals may pull away in relationships due to their all or nothing thinking about readiness for commitment. This attachment style often sets strict standards for themselves, like waiting for financial stability before considering a relationship, leading to walls being built up out of self-protection and fear of vulnerability. Their upbringing with emotional neglect can contribute to a deep-seated aversion to closeness and emotional connection.

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