018: Female Friendships in ENM: Support, Finding Your People and “Zhuzhing”

This week, Elle and Vee chat with their friend “Mommy” about the importance of female friendships in CNM (consensual non-monogamy), including:

 The importance of female friendships, and the differences between lifestyle and monogamous friendships. (1:22)

How does being sexual affect your friendships - female and male? (13:01)

Friends you’ve had from childhood vs friends you make in adulthood. (18:30)

What do you think when you think women in the lifestyle? (20:51)

“Girls’ girls” vs “guys’ girls”. (31:00)

Comparing ourselves to other women. (32:20)

Evolution of friendships: is there anyone who you originally didn’t vibe with who you’re good with now? (34:34)


How do you get over initial relationship anxiety? Putting in the time and work to create solid relationships. (39:32)

What can we as women do to support each other better in non-monogamous environments (sex parties, social mixers, lifestyle resorts, etc.)? (45:52)

Dealing with intimidation and self-comparison when meeting new women at mixers, sex parties and lifestyle resorts. (50:38)

Compersion when your partner is playing with your female friends. (59:19)

How has being non-monogamous affected mommy’s relationship with herself? (1:02:41)

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