Ordinary Unhappiness 117: Experiences in Groups feat. Lily Scherlis Teaser
Oct 4, 2025
Delve into the fascinating world of group dynamics with writer Lily Scherlis. The conversation explores how projection and transference transform from abstract ideas into tangible experiences in group settings. Discover the complexities of group relations compared to individual analysis. There’s a playful take on early group dynamics and the sensation of sizing each other up. Language is highlighted as a vital tool to articulate overwhelming emotions. Finally, ponder why some group experiences feel almost paranormal yet offer profound insights.
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Groups Amplify Analytic Dynamics
- Group settings amplify psychoanalytic dynamics like projection and transference beyond individual analysis.
- Lily says the volume and multidirectionality of groups make these processes feel categorically different.
Group Experience Feels Almost Religious
- Intense group experiences create a kind of shared, quasi-religious or magical thinking in participants.
- Abby compares early days at a Tavistock-like event to a performance where people size each other up and tap into 'magical' thought.
Analysis Provides Language For Chaos
- Psychoanalytic tools let participants name and make sense of overwhelming group feelings.
- Lily and Abby argue the intellectual apparatus helps you understand 'how crazy you feel' while you're feeling it.
