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Ordinary Unhappiness

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Mar 8, 2025 • 4min

92: Gerontophallocracy 2025: The Primitive Accumulation Monster Dad at the End of History Teaser

Subscribe to get access to the full episode, the episode reading list, and all premium episodes! www.patreon.com/OrdinaryUnhappinessFor the first time since the inauguration, our series metabolizing the ongoing chaos of American politics returns. That’s right: Gerontophallocracy is back! The topic is a certain grandiose deadbeat manchild patriarch who has succeeded in making himself even more of a ubiquitous object of speculation than Donald Trump: Elon Musk. But instead of focusing on Elon’s erratic behavior and personal symptoms, Abby, Patrick, and Dan tackle the question of Musk’s existence and prominence as a symptom of underlying political economic and libidinal economic conditions. It’s a tale of the Return of the (Barely) Repressed extending from religious myths to secular fictions and from the dawn of patriarchy and emergence of private property to the dream of a future where the scions of billionaires can plant their flags and dynasties on Mars. It’s a lot. Texts include:Friedrich Engels, The Origin of the Family, Private Property, and the State (available at https://www.marxists.org/archive/marx/works/1884/origin-family/)Sigmund Freud, Totem and TabooKarl Marx, “The Secret of Primitive Accumulation,” in Capital Vol I (available at https://www.marxists.org/archive/marx/works/1867-c1/ch26.htm)Robert Paul, "Yes, the Primal Crime Did Take Place," in Our Two-Track Minds: Rehabilitating Freud on CultureCarole Pateman, The Sexual ContractHave you noticed that Freud is back? Got questions about psychoanalysis? Or maybe you’ve traversed the fantasy and lived to tell the tale? Leave us a voicemail! (646) 450-0847  A podcast about psychoanalysis, politics, pop culture, and the ways we suffer now. New episodes on Saturdays. Follow us on social media:  Linktree: https://linktr.ee/OrdinaryUnhappiness Twitter: @UnhappinessPod Instagram: @OrdinaryUnhappiness Patreon: patreon.com/OrdinaryUnhappiness Theme song: Formal Chicken - Gnossienne No. 1 https://open.spotify.com/album/2MIIYnbyLqriV3vrpUTxxO Provided by Fruits Music
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Feb 22, 2025 • 1h 37min

91: Feminism, Antagonism, and Solidarity feat. Sophie Lewis

Sophie Lewis, author of "Enemy Feminisms" and a recovering academic, joins the conversation to discuss the complexities of various feminist ideologies. They explore historical figures who embodied contradictions within feminism, from slave-owning activists to modern transphobic demagogues. Lewis questions how we can engage with these problematic legacies while advocating solidarity. The dialogue delves into the tensions surrounding social reproduction, race, and the necessity of critical engagement rather than dismissal within feminist discourse.
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Feb 15, 2025 • 4min

90: Standard Edition Volume 1 Part 12: The Project for a Scientific Psychology Part 3 Teaser

Dive into Freud's intriguing theories as they unpack his quantitative argument, exploring the nature of 'Q' and the workings of neurones. Discover how pain perception links to memory emergence and the formation of a minimal 'ego.' The discussion also delves into the mind's ability to satisfy itself through hallucinatory processes. Plus, get a sneak peek at terms Freud introduces for the first time and preview concepts that will emerge in his future works on hysteria and dreams. It’s a captivating exploration of consciousness and desire!
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Feb 8, 2025 • 1h 8min

89: Breath, Vulnerability, and Interdependence feat. Jamieson Webster

In this engaging discussion, Jamieson Webster, a psychoanalyst and author of "On Breathing: Care in a Time of Catastrophe," navigates the profound themes of breath and vulnerability. She connects breath with psychoanalytic history, examining how breathing practices influence trauma and interdependence. Webster critiques the wellness industry's simplistic views and discusses the emotional toll on healthcare workers during COVID-19. The conversation culminates in reflections on the shared nature of breath, emphasizing its unseen impact on our collective experiences.
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Feb 1, 2025 • 3min

88: On Hate and Aggression, Part IV Teaser

Dive into a thought-provoking discussion on the complex nature of hate and aggression. Explore how everyday situations reflect displaced feelings of hate and how societal ideologies channel aggression while disavowing hate. The conversation touches on theologies like 'hating the sin but loving the sinner' and examines the blame game in politics, revealing the cruelty enjoyed across party lines. Gain insights into how hate is used to disqualify and condemn groups, all while maintaining a facade of legitimacy.
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Jan 25, 2025 • 1h 47min

Episode 87: On Hate and Aggression, Part III

Abby, Patrick, and Dan conclude their close reading of Winnicott’s “Hate in the Counter-Transference,” unpacking and tying together its three biggest arguments. First, there’s the connection Winnicott draws between the therapeutic encounter and childhood development: more than just an analogy, these two environments are directly connected, and in fraught ways. Second, there’s the link he draws between early experiences of “deprivation,” counter-transferential enactments in treatment, and the struggles of certain patients to establish a stable, safe sense of selfhood. Third, and most provocatively, is Winnicott’s articulation of how feelings of aggression and even hatred naturally arise not just from a child seeking to assert its independence, but from a caregiver. As Abby, Patrick, and Dan discuss, Winnicott’s idea of the “good enough mother,” far from being an exercise in mother-blaming, is in fact a humbling and compassionate recognition of motherhood as a kind of “impossible profession” (and more). And it reveals an approach to pathology, social conventions, and ideologies of the family that are critically different from Freud’s. Plus: the cruelty of the “cult of mother,” sublimated aggression in grim nursery rhymes, and the joy of stealing noses. Up next, in Part IV: we get granular about the implications of Winnicott’s thinking for confronting real-world expressions of hate and aggression in everyday social interactions, institutional dynamics, and, above all, politics.Have you noticed that Freud is back? Got questions about psychoanalysis? Or maybe you’ve traversed the fantasy and lived to tell the tale? Leave us a voicemail! (646) 450-0847  A podcast about psychoanalysis, politics, pop culture, and the ways we suffer now. New episodes on Saturdays. Follow us on social media:  Linktree: https://linktr.ee/OrdinaryUnhappiness Twitter: @UnhappinessPod Instagram: @OrdinaryUnhappiness Patreon: patreon.com/OrdinaryUnhappiness Theme song: Formal Chicken - Gnossienne No. 1 https://open.spotify.com/album/2MIIYnbyLqriV3vrpUTxxO Provided by Fruits Music
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Jan 18, 2025 • 4min

86: On Hate and Aggression, Part II Teaser

Dive into the complexities of human emotion as the hosts unpack Winnicott’s insights on hate and aggression. They explore the post-war therapeutic landscape and highlight the challenges clinicians face with difficult patients. Instead of opting for drastic measures like lobotomies, Winnicott emphasizes understanding the dynamics of transferential encounters. The discussion navigates the interplay of emotional responses, delving into how rage and grief shape early emotional development.
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Jan 11, 2025 • 1h 36min

85: On Hate and Aggression, Part I

Dive into the intriguing concept of aggression as explored through D.W. Winnicott's theories. The discussion uncovers how feelings of hate can be pivotal in familial and therapeutic settings. Emotional complexities in parenting, particularly in response to concealed identities, take center stage. Insights into childhood aggression reveal its role in development, seen not just as negative but essential to growth. The podcast encourages a deeper understanding of the interplay between aggression, love, and movement in human relationships.
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Jan 4, 2025 • 11min

84: New Year Vibe Check: I Can’t Go On, I’ll Go On

The hosts dive into the humorously complex world of cryptocurrency, merging finance with psychoanalytic theory. They tackle capitalism through a Lacanian lens, exposing the irrationalities of financial markets. Personal anecdotes reveal unconventional career paths, critiquing profit-driven theories in finance. Additionally, they shine a light on the deceptive allure of cryptocurrencies and the scams lurking within, showcasing the absurd nature of a fictional 'rug pull coin.' It's a witty blend of satire and deep thought.
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Dec 21, 2024 • 10min

83: Religion and Neurosis feat. Nathan Rein Teaser

Delve into Freud's intriguing views on religion and neurosis, where individual obsessions meet collective rituals. The dialogue navigates Freud's Jewish heritage and Catholic influences, unraveling his nuanced understanding of obsessive-compulsive disorder. Discover how shared public practices contrast with personal suffering, and ponder Freud's ambivalence towards religion. Sprinkle in some surprising anecdotes, like Martin Luther’s health issues and unexpected Christmas dance objections, and you have a rich tapestry of psychological insights and cultural critique!

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