The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma} Ep. 37: A Closer Look at Insecure Avoidant Attachment
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Jun 16, 2021 Dive into the world of insecure avoidant attachment and discover how infants creatively meet their emotional needs. This discussion reveals the complexities behind connection and autonomy, shedding light on their impact on emotional regulation. Learn about the significant role of co-regulation and nonverbal communication in healthy development. The insights offer valuable resources for parents navigating the challenges of trauma and attachment, inspiring hope amidst the complexities.
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Avoidant Attachment and Connection
- Insecure avoidant attachment involves struggling with connection in attachment.
- Babies prioritize their caregiver's regulation, learning to suppress connection needs if caregivers react negatively.
Appearance vs. Reality in Avoidant Attachment
- Avoidant babies appear independent, with limited connection needs, unlike anxious babies.
- They might struggle with empathy and deep emotional connections.
Limited "We" Space
- Insecure avoidant attachment minimizes the "we" space in relationships.
- The focus remains on separate "you" and "me" with little overlap or shared experience.
