Bruce Springsteen discusses the importance of supporting his children's interests and potential. He shares how he encouraged them to pursue their dreams and provided them with a variety of options. Springsteen's own childhood experience with Elvis Presley inspired him to learn the guitar at a young age. Discover the significance of nurturing children's interests and providing unconditional love and support for their personal growth and development.
Encourage children to pursue their dreams and provide opportunities for them to explore different interests.
Believe in and support our children in their pursuits, showing up for them in challenging situations and offering unwavering support.
Deep dives
Supporting their interests and dreams
Bruce Springsteen and his wife Patty have successfully helped their children, including an Olympic level equestrian and a New Jersey firefighter, become who they are and realize their potential. They encouraged their children to pursue their dreams and provided them with opportunities to explore different interests. Springsteen's own experience, as a child being inspired by Elvis Presley, may have influenced his parenting approach. As fathers, our role is not to shape our children into replicas of ourselves or force them to become superstars, but to support and expose them to various opportunities that align with their interests and passions.
Believe in them and offer support
Our job as fathers is to believe in our children and support them in their pursuits, regardless of what they choose. Whether they decide to become police officers, firemen, musicians, or athletes, we need to show up for them, even in challenging and uncomfortable situations. We should refrain from pressuring or criticizing them. Instead, we should cheer them on, be proud of their efforts, and be there to catch them if they fall or fail. By offering unwavering support, we help our children become who they are meant to be and help them realize their full potential.
Bruce Springsteen has three children: Evan, Jessica, and Sam. One of them is an Olympic-level equestrian (which can not have been a cheap or easy interest to encourage, nor always a fun one to watch). His son, Sam, recently became a New Jersey firefighter (a scary thought for any parent). Clearly, Bruce and his wife Patti have figured out how to help their children become who they are, and to realize their potential.
“I wanted them to see people that did a lot of other things,” Bruce once said in an interview, “be around people who would shape them and they would have a lot of options.” Perhaps his inclination to encourage them to pursue their dreams comes from his own experience. In his autobiography, Springsteen takes us back to when he was 7 years old and watched the controversial rockstar Elvis Presley’s appearance on The Ed Sullivan Show. When Elvis walked off the stage, “I sat there transfixed in front of the television set, my mind on fire. I had the same two arms, two legs, two eyes; I looked hideous but I’d figure that part out… so what was missing? THE GUITAR! The next day I convinced my mom to take me to Diehl’s Music on South Street in Freehold. There, with no money to spend, we rented a guitar.”