Raising Good Humans
S3 Ep 49: Parenting on Display: How to Navigate Parenting In Front of Others w/ Susan Stiffelman
Dec 8, 2023
Marriage and Family therapist Susan Stiffelman shares practical tips on how to navigate parenting in front of others, handle challenging situations during stressful holiday gatherings, and address a child's behavior by understanding their feelings and motivations. The podcast also discusses techniques for self-regulation, the importance of nurturing children through moments of rupture, and supporting children through negative emotions.
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Quick takeaways
- Having open conversations and setting expectations with family members can help navigate challenging parenting situations in front of others.
- Shifting our mindset, practicing self-regulation, and focusing on reducing our own stress can positively influence our children's behavior during the holiday season.
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Navigating Parenting in Front of Family Members
Parenting in front of family members can be challenging, as we often feel judged or embarrassed. It's important to plan ahead and have strategies in place to manage these situations. One strategy is to have open conversations with family members beforehand, expressing concerns and setting expectations. Another helpful approach is to practice self-compassion and acceptance, recognizing that we can't control our child's behavior entirely. Making repairs and offering genuine apologies when necessary can help rebuild relationships with family members and teach our children important life skills.
