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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

(Matt Monday): THIS Is The Most Dangerous Moment In Dating

May 13, 2024
13:11
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Matt Monday, a dating and relationship expert, discusses the dangers of compromising standards in early dating stages. He highlights the impact of anxious attachment styles and the importance of setting boundaries. The podcast explores how to attract healthy relationships without sacrificing self-worth.
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Quick takeaways

  • In dating, it's crucial to maintain standards and boundaries when liking someone to avoid compromising self-worth.
  • Anxious fawning in relationships can lead to imbalance and resentment, emphasizing the importance of communication and setting boundaries.

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The Scarcity Mindset in Dating

The most dangerous moment in dating occurs when we decide we like somebody, leading to a scarcity mindset where we feel the need to hold onto that person at any cost. This mindset makes us compromise our standards and boundaries, believing we can't lose someone we truly desire. However, maintaining our standards and boundaries is crucial in dating as it defines how others perceive us and understand our self-worth.

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