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Why Men Don't Talk About Their Sexual Abuse (with Mike Chapman and Dr. Doug Carpenter)

Mar 4, 2024
Male survivors of sexual abuse share their stories of harm and healing, exploring reasons for silence and the impact of shame. Topics include challenges in disclosure, manipulative nature of abuse, fear of sharing, and overcoming trauma. The podcast delves into the impact on sexual orientation, building genuine connections, and healing through creative expression.
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  • Survivors test reactions of others before disclosing sexual abuse for safety and support.
  • Building healthy same-sex friendships helps survivors rebuild self-worth and identity post-abuse.

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Challenges in Disclosure and Healing

For survivors of sexual abuse, the journey of disclosure and healing is complex. The process of disclosure often involves incremental steps, as individuals test the reactions of others to gauge safety and support. Often, survivors carry shame, guilt, and self-condemnation, hindering their ability to share their stories openly. Finding individuals who can sit with their story, show empathy, and provide support is crucial in the healing process. Incremental disclosure and compassion from others play vital roles in helping survivors navigate their healing journey.

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