Pete Taylor, a men's mental health and anger management expert, joins Benjamin Owen to discuss the challenges men face with anger. They explore how societal norms affect men's expression of anger and provide insights on managing this emotion effectively. The conversation delves into the importance of setting boundaries, seeking support systems, and understanding the impact of testosterone levels on anger management.
Men struggle with societal expectations around anger and masculinity, leading to shame and confusion.
Family modeling of anger influences how men handle their own anger in adulthood.
Understanding the impact of hormones on anger can help men regulate their responses and prioritize health.
Deep dives
Understanding Anger in Men
Men often struggle with acknowledging and dealing with their anger, which can stem from various underlying emotions like fear, shame, or humiliation. The influence of societal expectations around masculinity and the suppression of anger are significant factors contributing to men's struggles with anger. Expressing and articulating emotions, participating in retreats or therapy, and setting clear boundaries are effective ways for men to navigate and manage their anger.
Impact of Family Dynamics on Anger
Men's experiences with anger are often influenced by how they were modeled by their parents. The use of anger as a tool for behavior control or expression within the family dynamic can shape how men perceive and handle anger in their own lives. This learned behavior can have lasting effects on how men express and process their anger.
Balancing Testosterone Levels and Anger
Testosterone levels can impact how men experience and express anger, with high cortisol levels from chronic anger potentially affecting natural testosterone production. Understanding the relationship between hormones and emotions can help men regulate their anger responses and prioritize their overall health and well-being.
Practical Approaches to Managing Anger
Developing healthy strategies to address and manage anger is crucial for men. Techniques such as acknowledging anger, identifying underlying emotions, validating feelings, and learning from past experiences can help men address their anger constructively and prevent it from escalating into problematic behaviors.
Promoting Emotional Awareness and Expression
Creating a safe space for men to explore and express their emotions, particularly anger, can lead to greater emotional awareness and healthier coping mechanisms. Encouraging open discussions, seeking therapy or support, and engaging in self-reflective practices can empower men to navigate their anger more effectively and lead to personal growth.
Ask us a question & we'll answer on the show (click here to msg us)In this podcast we talk about men and anger.Anger is probably the most troubling emotion men face as it's not welcome in so many social situations. Powerful men have anger, lots of it and more than ever there are no healthy ways to express anger for men and boys.Boys are told to not be angry. Men are told that being angry is the same as being violent and men end up shameful, confused and withdrawn.This podcast talks about ...
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