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I Thought I Had to Be the ‘Perfect Wife’—Until I Realized This | Lisa & Tom Bilyeu (Relationship Theory)

Mar 11, 2025
01:12:54

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on May 3, 2017. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to Women of Impact, where we are celebrating our power and balancing that inner energy! Today, I've got an episode that is really close to the heart, diving right into the art of balancing masculine and feminine energies with none other than someone who knows me best, my amazing husband, Tom Bilyeu!


Guys, if you've ever felt a disconnect or even a spark missing in your relationship, it's time to tune in because we’re breaking it down like never before. Trust me, this isn’t your usual chat about dynamics; Tom and I are here to talk about what really goes on behind the scenes when it comes to balancing energies and keeping that attraction alive.


We’re addressing big concepts like Tony Robbins’ views on energy polarity, but making them relatable and bringing them into the reality of everyday life. This is about enhancing our partnerships, understanding each other better, and fostering connections that truly resonate.

And guys, I'm all for those juicy, tactical insights that you can start implementing today – so get ready to hear about how you can seriously boost your relationship game with some real talk about emotions, communication, and more.


So, prepare to dive into the dynamics of relationships and discover that balance that allows us to truly thrive together!


SHOWNOTES

00:00 The Essence of Impact Theory

00:37 Kicking Off with Comments

01:02 Jessie & Working Out Together

03:40 Stories of Commitment

04:14 Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energy

10:58 Emotions and Relationships

15:05 Real Talk on Protection

22:37 Transparent Communication

27:48 Leading by Example in Relationships

32:19 Cultivating Connection & Sacrifice

46:53 Encouraging Each Other

53:22 Dealing with Hard Times Together

59:42 Tactics for Love and Appreciation


Join Tom live on his Twitch stream. He’s live daily from 6:30 to 8:30 am PT at www.twitch.tv/tombilyeu

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