Explore the hidden ways spiritual bypassing can undermine marriages as the hosts share personal experiences of addiction and relationship struggles. They emphasize the importance of addressing deeper issues rather than just relying on faith. Listeners will uncover the challenges of seeking advice from religious leaders and the complexities of attraction within marriage. The discussion advocates for vulnerability, open communication, and a reevaluation of traditional teachings to create healthier, more authentic connections.
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Easter Story Reveals Church Messaging
Caitlyn recounted Easter Sunday at church where a testimony praised freedom from physical affairs but ignored emotional purity.
She realized the church message accepted temptation as normal and settled for minimal purity in marriage.
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Understanding Spiritual Bypassing
Spiritual bypassing is using faith as an excuse for behavior, like blaming temptation on the devil.
This mindset divides the whole being and can cause hidden actions despite outward appearances.
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Letting Go of Temptation Paradigm
Brandon stopped ministry and church attendance, realizing temptation wasn't real when he wasn't exposed to religious or media triggers.
He recognized temptation as a man-made construct and took full ownership of his choices.
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In this episode of The Grounded Union Podcast, Brandon and Caitlyn dive into a topic that many couples struggle with but rarely talk about—spiritual bypassing. They break down how faith can sometimes be used as a shield to avoid addressing deeper relationship problems, leading to emotional disconnection and unresolved conflicts. They share personal stories of navigating addiction, faith, and marital struggles, offering both hard-earned lessons and practical steps for couples looking to build a stronger foundation. If you've ever been told to "just pray about it" when facing real relationship challenges, this episode is a must-listen.
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00:00:00 – Welcome & Event Announcements – In-person workshops are happening this year!
00:02:00 – Caitlyn’s Story – Caitlyn recounts an Easter Sunday experience that revealed problematic church messaging about purity and temptation.
00:05:50 – What Is Spiritual Bypassing? – A breakdown of how faith can sometimes be used to avoid real emotional work.
00:07:42 – Our Personal Story – How they used religious beliefs to cope with addiction and relationship struggles—and why it didn’t work.
00:14:30 – When Prayer Isn’t Enough – The importance of action alongside faith when facing real marital challenges.
00:21:05 – The Wake-Up Call – A pivotal moment that forced them to confront their issues head-on.
00:30:20 – Finding a Healthy Balance – How to incorporate spirituality into marriage without avoiding the tough conversations.
00:41:10 – Practical Steps for Couples – Actionable advice on how to break free from spiritual bypassing and cultivate a stronger, more authentic relationship.
00:50:15 – Final Thoughts & Takeaways – Wrapping up with key lessons and advice for couples struggling with this issue.
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