Nope! We're Not Monogamous Sexual Safety in Non-Monogamy Ep. 13
In today’s episode I have the pleasure of speaking with Evelin Dacker. We have a juicy conversation on creating sexual safety in non-monogamy. She tackles the most asked questions from my listeners on STIs, new relationship energy and she breaks down STARS, and how she uses it to create healthy relationships and communication around sex.
Evelin Dacker is a sex-positive Integrative Family Medicine physician. She is active in creating a safe space for LGBTQIA youth and adults and helping people through illness, trauma, and life transitions towards finding balance and joy. In addition to practicing medicine, Evelin created the safer sex communication model STARS to help facilitate open and honest sex conversations. She is a consent and sex educator, sexual health activist and TEDx speaker (on STARS).
💨 TLDR;
- 2:19- Polyamory
- 6:24- New Relationship Energy and Poly
- 9:46- S.T.A.R.S.
- 26:58- STIs
- 39:20- Sex Positive Doctors
- 42:48- Hierarchy in Relationships
- 46:06- Owning Yourself
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📚 Books mentioned:
- “Polysecure”, by Jessica Fern
- “All About Love”, by Bell Hooks
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Credits
- Host/Producer: Ellecia Paine. https://www.elleciapaine.com/
- Editor/Producer: Danny Walters.
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Ellecia Paine is a non-monogamy relationship coach who helps people navigate ENM (enthusiastic non
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