When Your Kid Says “I’m Boredddd!”

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Jan 13, 2026

Independent play expert Lizzie Assa shares her insights on child boredom and its importance. She reframes 'I’m bored' as a sign of unstructured time, encouraging parents to step back from constant entertainment. Lizzie discusses how boredom can spark creativity and resilience, stressing the need for safe play environments that cater to children's interests. She offers practical strategies for fostering independence, problem-solving, and decision-making through play, while emphasizing empathy and connection in responding to boredom.

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INSIGHT

Boredom As A Positive Signal

Boredom is a sign that a child has unstructured time to explore and grow.
Lizzie Assa reframes boredom as evidence parents reserved space for play, not failure.

ADVICE

Schedule Boredom Intentionally

Reserve downtime for boredom with the same ferocity you schedule lessons.
Protect unstructured time so kids can practice creativity and rest.

INSIGHT

We Lost Practice Time For Play

Past childhoods included long, repeatable stretches of free play that built skill.
Today's overscheduled lives reduce practice time for independent play.

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Your kid whines, “I’m so bored!” and suddenly you feel like you have to fix it. Dr. Becky and independent play expert Lizzie Assa reframe boredom as a good thing, show parents how to step out of the entertainer role, and share a few doable ways to build independence, creativity, and resilience.

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