116: Talk Tantra to Me: Sex Magic and Shadow Work with Sacred Sex Ed Author Leola Watkins

This week the girls go deep with Leola Watkins, Pleasure Priestess and the best-selling author of Sacred Sex Ed. Answering listeners' questions, they dig into a number of concepts under the tantric umbrella from shadow work and Golden Shadows, to sex magic and creating through orgasm, to yoni and lingum gazing.  They also cover how all of this applies to men, when often tantric conversations can feel very feminine-energy-focused, AND how we can apply living tantrically to everyday life! This is a conversation for people who are new to the concepts of tantra, as well as people who have done 15 retreats. Get ready to get turned on by life! 

Leola's story. Tantra and overcoming sexual shame. (3:51)

How to apply tantra to the real world: how can I be librated and expansive in this work environment and my home environment? (8:27)

What it means to be a Pleasure Priestess. (13:29)

What is shadow, and shadow work? Analyzing an old trigger of male-male play. (18:37)

What does sexual liberation mean when it comes to shadow work? (26:28)

Analyzing one of Vee’s triggers: Sex without condoms. (28:27)

Golden Shadow, and Elle’s integrated shadow. (33:28)

What’s in it for men? (38:07)

Eye Gazing: Tantra 101. What’s the point of this exercise? (42:36)

Vulnerability: “the cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek.” (46:19)

Sex magic: what is it? Manifesting through orgasm. (48:00)

Making your life juicier: the tantric principle that every moment is sacred. (53:25)

How to stay grounded at Hedonism Swing Breakers. (58:07)

Leola’s offerings and the final nugget: yoni and lingum gazing with your partner! (1:02:20)

Connect with Leola:

Website: talktantratome.com

Instagram: @talktantratome

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