

are my standards too high? advice session [video]
25 snips Feb 16, 2025
Delve into the complexities of personal and relational standards with a dose of humor. The discussion emphasizes finding balance between lofty expectations and realistic boundaries in relationships. Navigate feelings of jealousy and loneliness while understanding the importance of open communication. Personal anecdotes add depth as they explore how to foster healthy connections and reassess dating standards for genuine interactions. Through relatable stories, the hosts highlight the journey of setting guidelines and building meaningful friendships.
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Goldilocks Standards
- Having standards is complex because they constantly change.
- Emma Chamberlain introduces the concept of "Goldilocks standards," representing the ideal balance.
Imbalanced Standards
- Emma Chamberlain shares how her standards often become imbalanced.
- Her standards for herself become impossibly high, while her standards for others plummet due to low self-esteem.
Dangers of High Standards
- High standards can be as dangerous as low standards, leading to isolation and disappointment.
- Emma Chamberlain advises recognizing this and critically evaluating one's expectations.