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Why 99% of Relationships FAIL (Do THIS Today to Find Lasting Love!) | Michael Todd

Oct 2, 2023

Michael Todd, a renowned spiritual leader and relationship expert, delves into the fundamentals of lasting love. He emphasizes healing past traumas as a critical step towards building healthier relationships. Todd introduces the idea of a 'kingdom couple,' showcasing how two partners can elevate each other. He highlights the importance of self-awareness and inner peace over external validation, and shares insightful personal growth journeys that encourage listeners to seek authentic connections and prioritize their emotional well-being.

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Addressing past traumas is essential for healthier relationships.

Self-acceptance and self-love are prerequisites for loving others authentically.

Taking time to heal and reflect is comparable to an off-season in sports.

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Importance of Mindset and Personal Growth

The podcast episode emphasizes the significance of mindset in shaping one's life and fulfillment. The speaker highlights the importance of personal growth and overcoming obstacles to achieve greatness. The discussion revolves around the speaker's recently published book, which offers exercises and tools for building a plan for greatness and propelling one's life forward. It emphasizes the journey of personal transformation and the need to prioritize self-reflection and healing.

Making Decisions and Transforming Them into Discipline and Desire

02:04

The Importance of Allowing Time for Healing

01:26

Choosing Partners for Purpose

01:16

The Power of Mind and Word Transformation

00:50

Intro

3min

Understanding the Challenges of Modern Relationships

3min

Healing Before Love: Facing Emotional Wounds

10min

Healing Through Commitment: Transforming Relationships

5min

Transforming Health Through Self-Awareness and Discipline

3min

Transforming Self-Belief for Lasting Change

6min

Healing Through Self-Reflection

15min

Prioritizing Inner Peace Over External Validation

5min

Transformative Journeys: Purpose and Partnerships

16min

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The Journey of Authenticity and Personal Growth

6min

11.

Living a Life of Authentic Service and Compassion

5min

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Legacy and Personal Growth

7min

Today we have a special guest, Pastor Michael Todd, who is a renowned spiritual leader and relationship expert. Pastor Michael and his wife, Natalie, have been leading Transformation Church in Tulsa, Oklahoma, since 2015. They are known for their impactful teaching on relationships, marriage, and personal growth.

Michael Todd is the #1 New York Times bestselling author of Damaged but Not Destroyed, Relationship Goals and Crazy Faith and is the lead pastor of Transformation Church in Tulsa, Oklahoma, with over 5,000 people in physical attendance and over 250,000 viewers live online every week. With a 6.3M+ and growing social following, Todd speaks at a variety of influential churches, events, and conferences each year, including Elevation Church, C3 Conference, Lakewood Church, VOUS Conference, Relentless Church, XO Conference, and has been featured on many prominent media outlets such as The Today Show, Fox & Friends, Forbes, Ebony, The 700 Club, and the Tamron Hall Show. He and his wife, Natalie, have been married since 2010 and live in Tulsa, Oklahoma, with their four beautiful children: their daughters, Isabella, Ava, and Gia, and their son, Michael Jr. Learn more at iammiketodd.com.

Buy his book: Damaged but Not Destroyed

In this episode you will learn,

The importance of addressing and healing past trauma to become better partners in current relationships.
The concept of a "kingdom couple" – a dynamic duo that transcends the conventional relationship. Learn what it means to build a powerful partnership rooted in purpose, trust, and shared values.
How selecting the right partner can significantly impact your journey towards fulfilling your life's purpose.
Michael Todd delves into the importance of self-discovery and purpose-driven living for a fulfilling relationship.
How the intimate aspect of a partnership can either strengthen or strain the connection between two individuals.

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