509. The ADHD Advantage: How Neurodivergent Entrepreneurs Outperform with Tyler Elstrom

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Jun 9, 2025

In this engaging conversation, ADHD coach and entrepreneur Tyler Elstrom shares his insights on harnessing the unique strengths of the ADHD brain. He introduces the 'INCUP' framework, highlighting how curiosity, urgency, and passion can spark motivation and productivity. Tyler delves into the neurochemical advantages of ADHD in entrepreneurship and discusses strategies like body doubling and flexible routines. He emphasizes self-compassion to combat stress and shame, offering listeners practical tools to thrive in both work and life.

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INSIGHT

ADHD Brain and Dopamine

ADHD brains have four brain regions developing differently and mainly genetic causes.
Dopamine regulation is key to motivation and focus differences in ADHD.

INSIGHT

Dopamine Differences in ADHD

Neurotypical brains get a dopamine surplus to motivate task pursuit and completion.
ADHD brains produce less dopamine for tasks, causing start and focus challenges.

INSIGHT

Impact of Early Negative Messages

Kids with ADHD hear 20,000 more negative messages by age 8 than neurotypical kids.
This causes shame and inaccurate self-labels like lazy or undisciplined.

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If you’ve ever struggled to get started, finish what you begin, or felt like your brain just doesn’t operate like everyone else’s—you’re not alone. Jay sits down with ADHD coach and entrepreneur Tyler Elstrom to unpack what’s really going on in the ADHD brain, from dopamine regulation to executive function to emotional overwhelm.

Tyler introduces the “INCUP” framework—five triggers that can help neurodivergent people enter flow, stay productive, and feel fulfilled: Interesting, New, Challenging, Urgent, and Passionate. When these five levers are present, the ADHD brain actually produces more dopamine than a neurotypical brain—and that’s where the superpower lies.

This episode is packed with practical strategies for tapping into motivation without relying on shame or stress. Tyler and Jay talk about everything from time blindness to body doubling to why a $7 coffee might just be the best investment you can make in your focus. Whether you have ADHD or love someone who does, this episode is a compassionate, empowering deep dive into a better way of working.

Challenge of the Week:

When you fall short—miss a deadline, forget something, or show up late—say “Oops” and move on. Practice offering yourself grace instead of shame. This one small habit can completely change your relationship with productivity and self-worth.

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We talk about:

Why ADHD brains don’t respond to rewards the same way—and how to work around it
The five productivity triggers that flood the ADHD brain with dopamine
Why harshness and shame are counterproductive (and what to do instead)

Links & Tools from This Episode:

Tyler Elstrom’s website: ADHDTyler.com
Follow Tyler on Instagram: @tylerelstrom_
Read Flow by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi
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