The Baggage Reclaim Sessions Ep. 303: Tired of Chasing: How to Tell if You're Ambitious or Just Activated
Oct 24, 2025
Explore the fine line between ambition and the exhausting chase for validation. Discover how people-pleasing and over-identification with roles can lead to burnout. Natalie shares insights on recognizing emotional triggers disguised as ambition. She dives into the importance of setting boundaries and aligning actions with personal values. Reflection on ease and peace reveals why they often feel unsettling. Ultimately, it's about who you become in the pursuit, challenging listeners to break free from old patterns and embrace intentional growth.
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Chasing Disguised As Ambition
- Chasing often masquerades as ambition, tenacity, and persistence but may actually be activation of old wounds.
- When chasing is driven by trying to meet unmet past needs it erodes boundaries and selfhood.
Map Your People-Pleasing Style
- Identify your people-pleasing style (gooding, efforting, avoiding, saving, suffering) to see how you chase needs.
- Use that awareness to stop earning worth through actions and protect your needs directly.
Check Your Why Before Doubling Down
- Check the why behind your efforts and how you approach goals before doubling down on them.
- Align intentions and methods with your values rather than brute-forcing achievements.
