Episode 374: How to get any man you want (The hook)

Nov 6, 2023

Learn how women can capture any man by being their most seductive selves. Understanding male sexual instincts, strategies to keep a man interested, and the importance of sexual openness and adventure in relationships. Discover how women can secure the commitment of a high-value man through unique experiences and becoming irreplaceable.

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INSIGHT

Utility Is The Master Key

Being useful is the master key to accessing any man you can directly reach.
Instrumental value integrates you into his daily life and creates de facto commitment.

ADVICE

Use Sex As Immediate Reinforcement

If you want a man, be the nastiest, sludgiest version of yourself for him quickly and proactively.
Throw sexual reward at him fast because sex is reinforcing and prevents him from looking elsewhere.

INSIGHT

Sex Withholds Fail Against Options

Withholding sex rarely works for high-value men with many options because they'll go elsewhere.
Matching his libido with consistent sexual access gives you a functional monopoly over his sex life.

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Due to popular demand, this is the second episode in a three-part series on how women can get any man they want -- even if they are not exceptionally attractive. Men are not complicated. To secure a relationship with any man they have direct access to, women only need to do two things (and not do one thing). This episode is about the second thing, the Hook. This is how women capture men. In order to hook a man, women have to be the nastiest, slutiest versions of themselves possible. A woman's sexual behavior is the primary way men gauge her interest and attraction. So she needs to do things for him that she hasn't done with any other man -- and, ideally, that he hasn't done with any other woman.

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