Show Them What You Love (But Don’t Make Them Love It)
Jul 21, 2020
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Learn how to introduce your favorite things to your kids while respecting their own interests. Sharing passions with children is important.
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Share your favorite things with your children without expecting them to love it in the same way.
Recognize and appreciate your children's individual interests and allow them to explore their own preferences.
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Sharing Experiences with Your Kids
When it comes to sharing your favorite things with your children, it is important to show them what you love but not make them love it. As a parent, you may eagerly want to introduce them to your favorite bands, movies, places, and foods, hoping that they will have the same enthusiasm. However, it is crucial to recognize that your children are their own individuals with their own preferences. Just as you may have rejected some of your parents' interests, they might not share the same enthusiasm for your favorites. Instead of demanding their approval or conformity, be patient and open-minded, allowing them to have their own reactions. Cherish the moments you have with your kids, regardless of their response.
Being Accepting of Differences
As a parent, it is important to remember that your children are not replicas of yourself. They have their own interests, likes, and dislikes. Just as you may have had differences with your own parents, your children will have their own unique perspectives. While it is natural to want them to embrace what you love, it is essential to be understanding if they do not share the same enthusiasm. This does not diminish the significance of your bond or the moments you share. Embrace their individuality and give them the space to explore their own interests, even if it means they don't love the same things you do. Appreciate the opportunity to try and be grateful for the moments you have together.
"You have been looking forward to this for so long. The opportunity to turn them onto your favorite bands. To watch your favorite movies. To take them to your favorite places. To order your favorite foods together."
Ryan describes the right way to introduce your kids to your favorite things, in today's Daily Dad Podcast.
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