PsycHacks Episode 444: The $50,000 beer (why dating is so expensive for successful men)
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Jul 8, 2024 Explore the financial implications of dating for successful men and how their success drives up dating costs. Discover why some opt for escorts as a viable alternative to traditional romance, confronting societal norms. Delve into the dynamics of accessibility and desirability in relationships, shedding light on the pressures faced by these men in an evolving dating landscape. This insightful discussion challenges perceptions and offers a new perspective on modern dating.
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Delay Increases Dating Cost
- Making women wait for sex makes dating far more expensive and often backfires for older women.
- Orion Taraban argues structured rules (e.g., third-date sex) price out high-value men and reduce matching chances.
Seize Rare Opportunities Fast
- If you get a date with a high-value man, act quickly and reciprocate sexual interest when appropriate.
- Orion Taraban advises seizing rare opportunities rather than playing hard-to-get with top prospects.
The $50,000 Beer Metaphor
- Extremely attractive people face huge opportunity costs for casual dates, making normal dating impractical.
- Taraban labels this the "$50,000 beer": a trivial date equals a massive forgone alternative.
