Her Discussions by Dr Faye Love Islander Turned Activist: Why I Got An Abortion
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Oct 8, 2025 Sharon Gaffka, an award-winning activist against violence toward women, shares her powerful journey of resilience. She discusses her experiences growing up mixed-race in the UK and the challenges of being spiked on a night out. Sharon sheds light on her abortion experience and the stigma surrounding it, advocating for women's choices. Her insights on beauty pageants reveal how they empowered her confidence and created a community for girls. Ultimately, she inspires listeners to embrace patience in life, challenging societal expectations.
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Growing Up Mixed-Race And Competitive
- Sharon grew up mixed-race in a middle-class household but experienced racism and felt socially outside at school.
- She channeled competitiveness into many activities and wanted to be listened to rather than labelled naughty.
Pageants Built Confidence And Skills
- Sharon entered beauty pageants as a teen to gain confidence and community despite mockery at school.
- Pageants taught public speaking, fundraising, and gave her lifelong friends and skills she still uses.
Becoming A Caregiver As A Teen
- At 14 Sharon became her mum's translator and carer when her mum was diagnosed with bowel cancer.
- She managed shopping, hospital runs and revised for GCSEs at her mum's bedside during surgeries and treatment.