Jocko Podcast Jocko Underground: My Best Man Insulted Me and My Wife. Should I Forgive Him?
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Nov 17, 2025 A listener shares a wedding drama where his best man insulted him and his wife. The hosts debate whether forgiveness is due and suggest stepping back from the drama. Jocko emphasizes the importance of training in jiu-jitsu and balancing partnerships for growth. They discuss handling social slights, advising listeners not to obsess over minor grievances and instead value meaningful relationships. Embracing extreme ownership and accepting apologies are key takeaways for navigating life's interpersonal challenges.
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Wedding Fight Led To Broken Friendship
- The questioner described his best man arguing with his new wife about inviting a bridesmaid's ex.
- The best man apologized days later via text, but delayed reconciliation led the groom to disengage.
Prioritize Consistent Jiu-Jitsu Training
- Keep training Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu and focus on the process rather than belts or drama.
- Train with people better, equal, and worse to develop defense, all-around skills, and offense.
Let Drama Fade, Don’t Fan The Flames
- Avoid fueling interpersonal drama and let problematic friendships naturally drift.
- Remain polite, disengage emotionally, and focus on higher priorities like family and training.