How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett How to Be an Attractive Man, with Dr. Robert Glover and “The Big Stick” Author Tony Endelman
Jun 6, 2023
01:29:11
WARNING! Listening to this episode may lead to you getting hit with a big stick! (In a good way.)
Just a wild guess: You want more confidence and passion in your life, not just in dating but in many areas, right? But deep down, you sometimes question your worth, both to women and to the world. And desirable women tend to see you as a “nice guy” or friend, not as a lover.
It can make you wonder if you’ll ever reach your potential as a man, and perhaps never attract the kind of woman you want. And no one wants to settle, or be lonely. Let’s smash those fears and doubts with a great big stick! In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, host Connell Barrett welcomes two very special guests: Tony Endelman and Dr. Robert Glover. Endelman is the author of the bestselling new book, “The Big Stick: A Roadmap for a 21st-Century Definition of Manhood.” The book is a blueprint on how to be an attractive man, based on Glover’s 40 years helping men overcome the debilitating problem of “Nice Guy Syndrome.”
In this fun, raw conversation, Endelman and Glover share some of the best, most practical tips from “The Big Stick,” including…
✔ How to break free from Nice Guy Syndrome and become an Integrated Man—happier, more confident, more attractive to women
✔ How to stop getting stuck in your head on dates, and always know what to say and how to say
✔ How to smash out of the friend zone on dates using The Three Ts
✔ How to be an attractive man starting today, using a simple, 3-step strategy
✔ Several exercises you can do today to destroy limiting beliefs and build true, authentic confidence
Get ready! Tony and the good doctor are about to hand you a big stick. Swing it, so you can stop doubting yourself and start living with passion and fulfillment, on and off the dating landscape.
Quotes
"I realized that engaging in things that make me miserable is counterproductive. It's time to leave them behind and start pursuing activities that truly ignite my inner passion." -Tony Endelman
"Through personal growth fueled by valuable lessons and failures, I've witnessed the transformative power of this knowledge in changing lives, including my own," reveals Barrett.." - Dr. Robert Glover
"Experiences reveal the transformative power of honest and compassionate communication, sparking a captivating mix of surprise, enthusiasm, and curiosity.." - Connell Barrett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
https://datingtransformation.com
https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
Dr Robert Glover
Co Author of “The Big Stick"
https://www.drglover.com/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-robert-glover-2421428/
Tony Endelman
Co Author of “The Big Stick"
"https://tonyendelman.com/
https://www.instagram.com/tonyendelman/
LEARN ABOUT “THE BIG STICK”:
http://www.bigstickbook.com
BUY “THE BIG STICK” ON AMAZON:
https://www.amazon.com/Big-Stick-Collected-Applied-Teachings-ebook/dp/B0C5N6VZ6C/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0_encoding=UTF8&qid=1684431647&sr=8-1
LEARN MORE ABOUT TONY, AND HIS INTEGRATED MAN COURSE:
http://www.TonyEndelman.com
LEARN MORE ABOUT DR. GLOVER, AND HIS COURSE AND BOOKS:
www.drgolver.com
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH YOUR HOST, DATING COACH CONNELL BARRETT, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
Chapters
00:17 Introduction
00:06:24 Breaking Free: Lessons from “No More Mr. Nice Guy”
00:10:45 Unmasking Covert Contracts: Revealing Toxic Manipulation
00:17:21 A Life-Altering Journey: Transformed by a Transformative Book
00:22:42 Transformation Begins: The Profound Words That Started It All
00:23:41 Unlocking Happiness: The Hidden Wisdom of Sitting Up Straight
00:25:14 Shifting Mindsets: Embracing Gratitude and Positive Change
00:30:28 The Liberation of Honesty: Harnessing Transformative Power
00:42:11 Conquering Anxiety, Mastering Social Skills for Dating
00:55:15 Embrace Your Authenticity: Action Speaks Louder
01:03:41 Challenging the Perfection Myth: Women's Insecurities Revealed
01:08:06 Revolutionizing the Dating Game: Unveiling Women's Perspectives
01:20:47 Male Relationships and Success: The Vital Connection
01:26:37 Integrated Man University or Integration Nation: Join the Transformation
01:28 Outro
Just a wild guess: You want more confidence and passion in your life, not just in dating but in many areas, right? But deep down, you sometimes question your worth, both to women and to the world. And desirable women tend to see you as a “nice guy” or friend, not as a lover.
It can make you wonder if you’ll ever reach your potential as a man, and perhaps never attract the kind of woman you want. And no one wants to settle, or be lonely. Let’s smash those fears and doubts with a great big stick! In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, host Connell Barrett welcomes two very special guests: Tony Endelman and Dr. Robert Glover. Endelman is the author of the bestselling new book, “The Big Stick: A Roadmap for a 21st-Century Definition of Manhood.” The book is a blueprint on how to be an attractive man, based on Glover’s 40 years helping men overcome the debilitating problem of “Nice Guy Syndrome.”
In this fun, raw conversation, Endelman and Glover share some of the best, most practical tips from “The Big Stick,” including…
✔ How to break free from Nice Guy Syndrome and become an Integrated Man—happier, more confident, more attractive to women
✔ How to stop getting stuck in your head on dates, and always know what to say and how to say
✔ How to smash out of the friend zone on dates using The Three Ts
✔ How to be an attractive man starting today, using a simple, 3-step strategy
✔ Several exercises you can do today to destroy limiting beliefs and build true, authentic confidence
Get ready! Tony and the good doctor are about to hand you a big stick. Swing it, so you can stop doubting yourself and start living with passion and fulfillment, on and off the dating landscape.
Quotes
"I realized that engaging in things that make me miserable is counterproductive. It's time to leave them behind and start pursuing activities that truly ignite my inner passion." -Tony Endelman
"Through personal growth fueled by valuable lessons and failures, I've witnessed the transformative power of this knowledge in changing lives, including my own," reveals Barrett.." - Dr. Robert Glover
"Experiences reveal the transformative power of honest and compassionate communication, sparking a captivating mix of surprise, enthusiasm, and curiosity.." - Connell Barrett
Featured in the episode
Connell Barrett
Founder and Executive Coach of Dating Transformation
https://datingtransformation.com
https://www.instagram.com/datingtransformation
Dr Robert Glover
Co Author of “The Big Stick"
https://www.drglover.com/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-robert-glover-2421428/
Tony Endelman
Co Author of “The Big Stick"
"https://tonyendelman.com/
https://www.instagram.com/tonyendelman/
LEARN ABOUT “THE BIG STICK”:
http://www.bigstickbook.com
BUY “THE BIG STICK” ON AMAZON:
https://www.amazon.com/Big-Stick-Collected-Applied-Teachings-ebook/dp/B0C5N6VZ6C/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0_encoding=UTF8&qid=1684431647&sr=8-1
LEARN MORE ABOUT TONY, AND HIS INTEGRATED MAN COURSE:
http://www.TonyEndelman.com
LEARN MORE ABOUT DR. GLOVER, AND HIS COURSE AND BOOKS:
www.drgolver.com
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH YOUR HOST, DATING COACH CONNELL BARRETT, TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM RELATIONSHIP:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
Chapters
00:17 Introduction
00:06:24 Breaking Free: Lessons from “No More Mr. Nice Guy”
00:10:45 Unmasking Covert Contracts: Revealing Toxic Manipulation
00:17:21 A Life-Altering Journey: Transformed by a Transformative Book
00:22:42 Transformation Begins: The Profound Words That Started It All
00:23:41 Unlocking Happiness: The Hidden Wisdom of Sitting Up Straight
00:25:14 Shifting Mindsets: Embracing Gratitude and Positive Change
00:30:28 The Liberation of Honesty: Harnessing Transformative Power
00:42:11 Conquering Anxiety, Mastering Social Skills for Dating
00:55:15 Embrace Your Authenticity: Action Speaks Louder
01:03:41 Challenging the Perfection Myth: Women's Insecurities Revealed
01:08:06 Revolutionizing the Dating Game: Unveiling Women's Perspectives
01:20:47 Male Relationships and Success: The Vital Connection
01:26:37 Integrated Man University or Integration Nation: Join the Transformation
01:28 Outro